黑色大床 Lara Queen Black-Christian Spiritual Therapist and Reader-Author of the "Personal Power of Healing" book, to be published soon. Some international English ahead.
Nothing invites bad advice like a first date — wear this, say that, and don’t under any circumstances say that — all with the aim of captivating a guy you’re not even sure you like … yet.
Not only are those so-called rules the opposite of fun (and isn’t having fun the point here?), but they also can end up backfiring. Who wants to seem stiff or eager to please because you’re following some lame set of guidelines rather than just being yourself? Which — trust us — is always more appealing than any script.
“The best strategy for a great first date is to go into it with the goal of simply enjoying yourself, instead of harboring an agenda to win him over,” says Lionel Tiger, PhD, a Professor of Anthropology at Rutgers University and author of The Decline of Males. “That way, you’ll also come across as tenacious and carefree, which are intrinsically attractive qualities.”
Live in the Now
If you and this guy clicked when you met, it’s tempting to leap into the future mentally — could he be The One? Stop right there and rein in your expectations or you won’t have fun.
“If you place too much importance on the encounter, you’ll spend the whole evening evaluating how it’s going and stressing about whether you’ll see him again,” explains Sheenah Hankin, PhD, a psychotherapist in New York and author of Complete Confidence. “This prevents you from fully experiencing what’s happening in the present.” That also means you’re not as engaged — or engaging — as you could be.
Remind yourself that it’s only one evening, and then just relax and let go. “A first date is an experiment,” says Tiger. “Adopt the laissez-faire attitude that it might work out or it might not.” And, hey, even if the sparks ultimately aren’t there, the night’s not a wash. You’ll probably come away with new insight or an interesting story to add to your repertoire.
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WHO IS LARA QUEEN? Lara Queen created "My Passion Is The Christ" in 2002 under the name of Lola-Marie Bentley. This "creation" was taken from her and re-entitled "The Passion of The Christ", which engendered multiple commercial products, without giving Lara Queen, the recognition and payment that she strongly deserves. The original "My Passion it The Christ" was written without blood's pictures. And Lara Queen would have never permitted the camera at the end of the movie to be inside the tomb, if she was warned that her book will be turned into a movie by Mel Gibson who was disguised as Frank with a blond mustache and wig and accompanied by Ray, the day they met 3 times in Beverly Hills.
The original "My Passion is The Christ" was not anti-semitic but instead emphasized the Jewish gift to humanity more than 2000 years ago, without them "being aware" of it, while Gibson cruelly answered that question when interviewed by Diana Sawyer. The movie also neglected JesusChris connection with Africa, a continent which "saved" His life. The only Actress that Black Queen Lara "saw" in a eventual movie during that probably recorded conversation, was Monica Belluci, after considering Sophia Loren as the Virgin Mary, because her story of motherhood is impressive or controversial, depending on the beholder..
Lola-Marie is still waiting for the people who took her complete work to contact her and make things right by adding her name to the filmed story and honoring her work - her own "friendship story" with Christ started when she was very young
Further, "My Passion is the Christ" is part of African American Achievements Records, and this must be legally proclaimed also
In the Californian City of Beverly Hills and Santa Monica, LM is better known as Michaele B. cause her "family" first name, can strictly be used by her closest family members, according to African aristocratic protocol. Black Queen Lara greatest accomplishment is being a single mother.
WHAT CAN LARA QUEEN DO FOR YOU?
Starting September 10th, 2010 Lara Queen Black is full-time Personal Power Therapist. Lady Lara OFFERS CHANGE, DEVELOPMENT, FOLLOW UP, SUPPORT in these following fields
- The Self, Body and Spirit; please NOTICE that the Mind is not treated.
- Life Problems, Friendship, Family, Professional, Social Life, Other difficulties
- Relationships: Love or Sex, Domination, Submission for individuals or couple
- Artistic Development: All-round advices, including co-creation
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