Notice: I will split this blog in 2 stories, because of the many reactions gotten on “Celebrities’ relationship versus ours”, behind the stage. Further, how do we feel about Tom and Katie Cruise’s divorce? What is it like to date a Celebrity? Is there something such as acquiring stardom cause of disgusting deals, from degrading to paranormal ones? Will you give up on your principles to date a Celebrity, knowing that a celestial star is ” scientifically, only condensed gas or excuse my French, a huge fart” and it is possible that the one who started this “star” jargon played on the analogy?
As you can tell by now, the content of this blog will be graphic. Still, I do not judge nor condemn anyone in this blog, which is covered by the blood of Jesus Christ, in Jesus Christ Power.
This is weird. I noticed yesterday that since a celebrity started to steal the texts in my site LaraVictore in 2004-2005 to produce songs that are highly ranked on Billboard, I started losing my faculty to easily become wealthier or make people more wealthy. But next week, I will add a few points on how to turn your boring relationship into a very exciting love story.
Many readers get depressed for lack of excitement in their lives after comparing their lives with super stars. Hello? Many celebrities have your problem after comparing their lives with ordinary people; and they are more desperate because they have to project a phony image all the time in public; otherwise those celebrities will not be able to afford their luxury lifestyles. I personally never got that impression from gorgeous and successful Katie and Tom Cruise though, because both of them are seem to live in harmony thank God, but it is because I decided to mind my own love-life!
June 2012 was spiritually the month of “falling masks”. I noticed an extension of that beneficial vibe in July. Truth is always liberating at the long run, even if some of us dislike seeing myths being broken or hearing the idea of “long term success” being promoted. If you have question on your personal life and are praying about it, this spiritual era will help you like no other! Unlucky in love? Pray now to find out more about yourselves, so that you are in state to understand what kind of man or woman is perfect for you.
Still, in terms of relationship, no one can generalize nor have the perfect keys to success. Because many other stars couples out there got the true thing, sentimentally speaking, and if I name them, jealous people will go and attack their families. My own love barometers for celebrities: the more they are private and the less they talk about their relationship with terms as “perfect, idealistic, divine, soul mates, made in heaven”, the more they are a true couple. It seems to me that stars relationships work better, if one of the partners is not a Star in the entertainment business, exceptions are to be counted on the fingers of one hand.
We all have seen how Ashton Kutcher used to auto-program himself on Twitter before running to Demi Moore; except herself. But believe it or not, some of us found it “news” that their relationship was not working and borderline bogus.
Living near Hollywood 8 years, I already know that John Travolta favored men; but I have read comments of people who did not believe it, while living in the same City in California. And more strangely yet, another Scientology “power couple” has absolutely the same rituals, but their marketing and image operation system is so huge, that no magazine mentions it; these magazines are “bought” and “silenced” somehow! By the way, you have to wonder why is there is so much written about Travolta being gay, while only the fact that he might have forced people into his sexual games must be questionable. Cross dressing is not illegal, but causing emotional pain sexually is absolutely wrong and often punishable by the law (I believe it that one of his victims gave the wrong day, this happens to people who are very active at night (reading or writing) or simply have a life rich in events (I mistake days and even years while I got a photographic memory myself, and if you read me often you notice that I don’t correct my blogs). But then again, Scientology was not named and John Travolta might get away with this because there is a more popular Actor who will come to his rescue in public at the right time. If Tabloids don’t speak about that, they are manipulated, period. But I will not go there neither.
This will not be a suspens filled blog, so I will just tell it like it is: celebrities are no super heroes concerning love matters and they should choose for real love, as opposed to a marketing operation or a career move, if they were self-loving. This is why I’d like to share my own experience in dating celebrities in the best parts of greater Los Angeles or New York (It is the same people shuttling from LA to Big Appleand any City in the midst included, anyway).
Some of you divorce or fight with your loving partner, because you are trying to land something or someone that doesn’t exist or because you lack a relationship similar to the stars, which is half of the time, by the way jolly-fake for the cameras! You are about to appreciate your life as never before once you understand what is true about stars’ relationships.
1. Drugs and location, location, location. Many of those stars’ relationships are concluded after insuring this part: “Will you always be available to hand me my favorite drugs and pills when I need them.”, period.
The same behavior is current when dating wealthy people, but at least wealthy people never ask you to find drugs for them. This behavior might also be usual for female wealthy wanna bes, like these fake European aristocracy that I don’t feel like naming.
2. Make me look good, want no work, no money. “A forgotten star is as good as a dead and poor star”, from a celebrity viewpoint. An insecure or new celebrity lives in constant fear of not getting work or having the right image; and you have to put up with that as girl friend. If they like you, they promote you after dating with “Would you like to make me look good” said literally as is, a cult offer before making you official for romantic dates in restaurants, bars and media together. To speak like a Californian woman, let me just say that “I got that all the time”, even if I never mention to a celebrity that I dated other celebrities! How can this be true? You only know the hugely mediatized celeb, but the majority of Celebrities don’t seek publicity and they are Actors who play in VERY POPULAR TV shows and they are very rich Artists who have as much money as mega-stars! I suspect that they loved me because I didn’t know them and couldn’t care less about their celebrities.
It is not unimportant to know that celebrities’ pandanemy is the constant fear of never finding work again, preferably in a box office dynamite of a movie. That factor, believe it or not, have triggered many bizarre reations, actions and weddings. For instance, x marrying y who is more than 30 years older, and later comes on Jeno to swear that she like older men, who cares. But then a few years later, x has become bipolar, and people are actually astonished about it!
3. In gods they trust that they cuff, roast in occult parties at night and recruit in the morning.
The new trend of celebrities’ relationships (that is actually very sick and should actually be illegal even in Heck) is made through sects and vodoo and witchcraft. The majority of celebrities who love these secret occult unions are Black and African American entertainers who exported witchcraft in America in their blood lineage or went to Islands to buy them perfectly knowing what they were buying. They pretend to go to Africa to help Africans, but in reality they go to Africa to hand out their sacrifices to African Children, ending up giving them as sacrifices to their horrible evils, while the whole press is seeing firework and calling them philanthropists. Sometimes, you get white celebrities involved in these witchcraft atrocities to get more money and more fame constantly.
There is a rumor lately worldwide that these African American entertainers tried to get Whitney Houston in their witchcraft (I don’t know what illuminati means, so I will just write witchcraft), and she refused because she was Christian. But the truth is different: Whitney Houston was only a Christian in movies or songs. What happened is that Houston was with them with her consent but when she tried to sacrifice a woman for her comeback, this woman was surrounded by a powerful Christian wall of light that Whitney Houston could not stand and died instantly.
This is my message to those people sacrificing others for fame and money: If BET or Obama knew who you truly are, they would have killed you themselves in public! And you know what? Your mask will fall too, and at the worst time.
The points above are also a way to make sure, that you date a celebrity and keep it, if you don’t mind about true love. At the beginning, no one in its right mind likes that or find that “good entertainment and something to dream about”. How, come you cheer up by thousands on these sad and somber love deals? You are not mean nor idiot, you are just programmed to act as if.
These business-like arrangements make hundred of fan bases (their bank account actually) by intervals like this: a good scandal or controversy or new movie or album, then follows the Leno-Letterman-Degeneres shows or another it-doesnt-matter-eat-all TV trinity, where celebrity explains, after saying something like “my cat had kittens ha ha ha or my boobies went to Mexico”, that they are with the real love of their life (thinking at their maid or personal assistant to be credible), therefore they have the right image to be in the next Oscar movie by Bright Goldenshein, which script has still to be written especially for them.
Some 8 years ago, I dated a mega star seriously. In the second week of our intense relationship, he told me that if I wanted to become his official girl friend, all I had to do was to always have (coded) co@ain at my house, that he visited by phone or live all the 40 days of our relationship; even the nicest ordinary man who’d not do this, and now that my gift are ripe I understand that it was a jail without walls! And the mega star made me mega promises that he was about to keep because I tested him. Meaning that today if I would have not broken up and accepted his “now-or-never” offer, I would be in all magazines, I would have the best websites and houses in the world, I would be invited to Obama’s funny gatherings probably and other ultra glamorous parties and if I dumped him, I would be moving on with another mega star.
But I declined because the prospect of being a drug holder or mule behind the mask of a mega star’s girl friend, felt like “selling my soul to the devil”. I chose to enjoy the process of succeeding my life by myself than to become a IT GIRL for the media and a woman missing out on true love in my golden houses.
If like me, you are disappointed in learning that many stars’ relationships are based on “my partner always have drugs in her house”, then be strong and move on; you’ve got probably better at home!
Start opening your eyes on yourself and the one who loves you. You’ve got everything you need for your happiness and success within. An African proverbs say: never envy a stranger; and it is absolutely right.
Then again, there are readers, who might call me “stupid” on rejecting mega stars’ offers and money, but I rarely though that they were right. I know that there is always a way out in a stupid situation. But would have been able to take the exit door on time? Thank God, this is has never be the question for me, concerning celebrities.
Today the above mega star is portrayed in the media as a perfect man in a perfect relationship with a woman, who can NOT satisfy him sexually; but you and me know that she has everything in her house, just kidding.
Later, I dated another mega star who was quite freaky but so intelligent and sexy. One day, I learned that he was going to get married on TV! When did he find time to date another woman?
I will never give the names of my ex mega stars out, cause they are not good enough for me, from God’s perspective, as corny as it sounds. And I am not angry with celebrities, but I am disappointed in the public who give them more importance than they deserve and spend money on them when economy is hard, and I am not talking about any Artists named in this blog.
I am never impressed by my ex celebs or other celebrities because they have no spiritual nor supernatural gift at all, (While on stage, my ex celebs do fabulous work, that sometimes leaves me speechless!), but then again the man in my house and the celeb are never the same people to me and his talent is work. What I see on the screen, is an absolute invention or lie or fantasy or just an entertainment worker! As long as you have never spend a day in the intimacy of a celebrity, you have met a character or a persona. Let’s change subject: are some mega stars dating as characters?
So, some of you will speculate that “whatever Katie Holmes knows about Tom Cruise” is a huge revelation. This is why a divorce settlement had to be reached as quick as possible.
Poor Katie and mean Tom to paraphrase the international media who knew perfectly well that Katie was rich all the time and that Tom never made it a secret that he was sweet with Scientology, you have to stop finding important everything that the Press says ans start thinking at the reason of their publication. To me, there was so much bad writings (same as publicity, believe it or not) about Scientology lately, that I thought that this was a commercial stunt!
So, I was apprehending two camps promoted by the media and the usual sheepish thinking and the Katie and Tom’s reconciliation as crescendo. And I am not ashamed to say that despite my distrust about Scientology matters, I kept my part of “Katie Holmes is hiding something about herself” for the right time. And you know why we all have an opinion on this matter that does not concern us, because there are so many of these couples in the spotlight being named as role models.
But the reality is sad: it is over between Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise; and it is sad because one of our illusionary love stories is over.
What I think the most about this failed Hollywood glamorous relationship is that Katie Holmes, at least, proves that “White woman are superior regarding love matters” as I explained to my ebony sister one month ago. For your information again, I am Black myself and only date white people. Too many Black women suffer way too much in relationships, and for nothing that is worth it (Such as Jimmy Choo shoes or credit cards or a mansion or image, yuk if you have to stay with a abusive partner on for that, you must get a white girl friend to explain it to you.)
Anyway, People is reporting thatLess than two weeks after Katie Holmes filed for divorce, the actress and Tom Cruise have reached a settlement.
Holmes’s attorney Jonathan Wolfe confirmed the deal in a statement to PEOPLE:“The case has been settled and the agreement has been signed. We are thrilled for Katie and her family and are excited to watch as she embarks on the next chapter of her life.
“This result could not have been achieved without the hard work of my partner Gary Skoloff and our co-counsel Allan Mayefsky, Michael Mosberg and Larry Trachtenberg of Aronson Mayefsky and Sloan and Peter Walzer and Chris Melcher of Walzer & Melcher in California.
“We thank Tom’s counsel for their professionalism and diligence that helped bring about this speedy resolution.”
Cruise’s attorney Dennis Wasser separately told PEOPLE, “All the lawyers and the parties are happy that it’s done, the deal was closed and we wish everyone well.”
There was no immediate word on the details, but Holmes and Cruise said in a separate statement they focused on protecting daughter Suri.
Sources close to both sides say that Cruise, 50, and Holmes, 33, were working on an arrangement in which Suri lives in New York with her mother and her father is given generous visitation rights.
Read full article in People magazine AND watch video.
I didn’t believe it, from the beginning, that Katie Holmes was even dating Tom Cruise, but they lasted 6 years and have a beautiful family together.
Even if the Press is showing Katie as the victim, I believe that she kept some degree of control all the time and probably sighed an agreement not to divorce within 5 years. But this is again an interfering personal statement.
My opinion doesn’t matter want Tom and Katie do not know me personally. Congrats to both Katie and Tom for their exemplary, classy, neat break up, no matter how dirty is their laundry they keep it for themselves and no matter how beautiful is their daughter Suri, they never say crazy things about her, hopefully.
We are a bit unclean to talk about Tom and Katie’s divorce just because they are public people.
Tom and Katie Cruise break up sounds more like a breakthrough, though. I wish both of them better luck in love matters.
Much love sent to my readers,
Lara Black Queen
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